Sunday 16 November 2008

To Lau family




My friends called up No3, Jalan USJ16/3C house (03-80244203) and manage to speak to Mr.Lau Chee Say (Grand father). He replied that he knows nothing.

Mind you, All of us knows that
Mr.Lau Chee Say, Mrs.Tey Seok Ngoh (grand father & mother),
Mrs.Sue Tan Soo Hwa (Auntie) and her son Mr. Lau King Wei,
Mr. Lau Fong Kwong (Uncle),
Mr. Thomas Lau Fong Meng(uncle)
helping Ms Lau Ping Leng (mother) to go hiding.

Why most of family need to refuse to provide proper cancer treatment?
Could you kindly explain to me or/and public for proper reason to refuse to save my son's precious life?

As I have been appealing if they know that my son will die without proper medical treatment mean all of you are trying to kill my son. If it happened in civilised country all of you are already arrested. I am sure anything happen to Kenichi you shall not get away even in Malaysia.

Why do you need to hide my son if you are taking care Kenichi properly?

All of you are not proper caretaker nor proper guardian.

Please send Kenichi to UMMC immidiately.

23 comments:

Anonymous said...

Why the police didn't take any action to USJ 16 house's.?
Is that have to wait till the child sacrifice then start to take action?

Asianladybird said...

can anyone HELP to let the police do something to help this child??

Kenichi Lau Sian Yee said...

I really wonder why police and welfare office never take necessary action promptly. Especially welfare office, it is their responsibility and duty to protect sick children.

Anonymous said...

This sound like a really weird case.
I don't know about all of you but I think that even if you're a caring father, why can't you make up with your wife for the sake of your son to make it a much brighter future for him?
It's true that police and welfare office in M'sia is slacking but if you're really a responsible person, why wouldn't the family accept your help directly for medication rather than try to hide away instead?

Anyways, those are my 2 cents worth comment. Only IMHO, no flaming please. Thanks.

Anonymous said...

Dear anonymous,

Yes, it is a weird case because ken's mum and her family are REALLY WEIRD! Speaking of responsibility, I can tell you that there is no one who can claim to be more responsible than Ken's father. We (my friends and I) have seen how he is suffering now not knowing where his dying son is and not being able to reach out to him.He has been running around doing everything he can to search for little Ken.

I can also tell you that reconciliation is out of question at this point. Anyway, any sane mother will consider proper treatment for the ailing son a priority at this crucial moment - all other matters aside.

Anonymous said...

I think, if the mother's family is reasonable then everything won't turn up like that.

Asianladybird said...

For a mother nature, you will do or sacrify anything for your child.
But it seem for the mother from the "testicles are swollen badly"photo, the mother do nothing and claim is side effect.I think the mother must be something wrong.

Anonymous said...

Is funny that, if the mother is something wrong, why the sister inlaw,grandfather,grandmother and uncle help to do so.

Asianladybird said...

Thats why from the begining,already told you that, this is not fiction,is a weird family.

Anonymous said...

not everything could be judge by one sided view..

Anonymous said...

Dear Anonymous,

How to make up with wife if we all know you cannot clap with one hand ? If she cares enough, why doesn't she send her kid to hospital, knowing he has little time left ? Has she given up hope on little Ken? If she does why can't she leave him back to his father' s care ? If she cares, why did she go hiding, do not bother to discuss with Ken's dad who has every right to know his son's health condition ? U do not know how frustrated he is now but WE KNOW....

Anonymous said...

Well, how would you know if she IS seeking treatment elsewhere without the concerns of the father?
Those who had knew Charmaine for years would prefer to trust the new husband than a friend? Not like they're married anyway.
To me, I think it does not matter whoever is dealing with this, as long as the little kid is receiving medical treatment for his sickness, there's none to be blamed at.

Kenichi Lau Sian Yee said...

Dear anonymous,

Since you do confirm they are proving treatment.
Can you let me know what kind of treatment mother is providing?
At where? By whom? By how?
Can you also shown me proof of effect of your so called treatment?

Anonymous said...

Dear Annoymous,

With your latest comment, i strongly believe you are a member of Lau's family. You seems to know nothing but also seems to know a lot. If you are, pls write down your name and you are most welcomed to give your comment and views bravely. Let's discuss what sort of medication is the kid receiving, is he getting better now, can Ken's dad visit him ? If he is getting better with the medication, proof it and no need to go hiding. All aunties here are waiting to hug him and send him our best wishes.

Anonymous said...

I'm sorry but I'm not from the Lau's family.
I'm just saying what I have said because I personally believe that most situations have 2 faces. It's my believe. I have no means to side anyone as I don't know the father or mother nor any family members.
I am just having my stand because I have been in similar situations before.
Hope you understand. :)

Anonymous said...

Dear Anonymous,

Since you said that this is a weird case, I find it hard to believe that you were in similar situation before! If you had been you of all people should be understand that a child is innocent and should not be used as a pawn to achieve whatever intentions the adults have. (referring to Chairmain and her family).

If they had really been seeking treatment elsewhere as you mentioned, then Ken's cancer would not have relapse. He has only 6 months more to go to complete the treatment. According to the specialist at UMMC, treatment for a relapse case could cause tremendous pain to the child. Is this all necessary?? Is this what you call LOVE. Do you still think the mother and her family really love Ken??

At this point, Ken's father had no other thoughts but to locate his son so that he can be given IMMEDIATE TREATMENT for his relapse case even if the survival rate has dropped to 30%. He has not spared a thought for costs nor all his time! He is putting aside his business to concentrate on locating Ken. He has even got the help from specialist in Japan to launch an international search for bone marrow donor. Is this not LOVE.

Dear anonymous, if after all this you still think that Charmain and her family has logical reasons for doing what they are doing to Ken then I really sympathise with you because obviously you will not be able to solve your own predicament too! May God bless you.

Anonymous said...

P.S

By the way, you mentioned that you are not a member of the Lau family nor know any of them how do you know that Charmain is a divorcee and Ken's father is her new husband!

You also mentioned that it does not matter whoever is dealing with the matter as long as the kid is receiving treatment. Very true but from Ken's relapse it is obvious that whatever treatment the Lau family is giving is NOT WORKING. Why then does she goes into hiding with the son and does not give the father and the specialist at UMMC a chance to treat Ken.

If you are really a neutral party perhaps you may think it is logical now for you to encourage Charmain to come out of hiding.

Let me put this bluntly - if Ken was to succumb to his illness during this time of hiding - all those who abetted with the Lau family by hiding him and withholding information from the police and welfare department are all parties to a murder!

Anonymous said...

Maybe you got the wrong person? I only posted the last 2 comments.
Nevertheless, like I've said, I'm not putting the blame on anyone as I know how valuable life is.

Anonymous said...

Since there are so many anonymous comments, my remarks are meant for those who are trying to put negative comments on Ken's father and who seems to think that the Lau family is doing the right thing.

If you are not the one, then you do not have to be on the defensive. I am glad to note that you know how valuable life is. Let's hope that the Lau family thinks so too and stop messing around with Ken's life.

Anonymous said...

Dear Anonymous,

I really do not know whether you are from Lau's family or you think we aunties have nothing better to do, I am telling you now, what you have written as a neutral party's comment is just like a needle poke into our heart, aunties' heart who receive no benefit writing on this blog and have no relationship to this little Ken. AND, your comment is like a sword poking through Ken father's heart. Your view and comment is welcomed but be responsible for what you are trying to say. Simple as that, a sane mother will put aside whatever differences with son's dad and discuss whatever possible medication deems appropriate with son's dad, a sane mother will not hide his ailing son away and not seeking help, a sane mother will allow son's dad to meet for the last time before he goes, etc..etc.. So, we can safely classified this mother as insane and being supported by an insane family.

I wish you are from Lau's family, at least one of you hear justice for little Ken. Since you said you are not, i beg you to input constructive ideas on how to locate our poor Ken, rather than giving heart breaking comments.

From :
Desperate Aunties

Anonymous said...

Dear all supporters of either Kenichi's father or Lau's family...

If this is a public blog, everyone has the rights to leave any comments...either positive or negative feedbacks...

As recent affairs linked me to this blog...I've glanced through it...

If you are someone who has no relationship with any side of this case...you could see it that the Followers of this blog are strongly standing on Kenichi's father side...

Some of the anonymous did sounded rude in some comments...they should have be cautious with their words.

Dear aunty pat, I suppose you should be more mature than the other anonymous. In contrast, I did not see the mature in you in handling negative comments. Word them nicely thank you.

Anonymous said...

Dear another concerned anonymous,

If words are too strong and hurting anybody, we sincerely send our apology. Clock is clicking, Ken's life is slipping away and nobody seems to be able to help including aunties like us. We strongly protest negative comments is simply because we want to see a life being saved here, if not, a father is given a chance to know whether his son is in pain or worst is, is he still alive ? It's hard for a 3rd party to understand what is happening here ? If you have a child, and he is so sick, what would you do ? Hiding from your son' s dad is your top priority ? What did he do so wrong that you must punish him with your son's life ? Can they sit down and talk it out ? Charmain, I am a woman, if Ken's dad is a nuisance, I will be the first one lining up by your side. You seem to be the nuisance looking at Ken father's suffering all these years.

Dear readers/bloggers, we are here to seek help, no offence pls !

Anonymous said...

Dear "neutral" anonymous,

Yes, I will admit that we aunties are standing on Ken's father's side not out of spite for the Lau family but because we are conscientious people who cannot stand to see injustice being done to a helpless child who cannot speak up for himself and fight for his life.

I would not even be bothered if Ken's father does not deserves our help.

You are right, this is a public blog and all are welcome to post their comments be it positive or negative. You have your opinion and I have mine and I do not see anything offensive in my writing - at least not to an educated and learned mind.

I will continue to support Ken's father in his search for Ken and to see Ken being given a chance to live. At the end of the day whatever happens to Ken, I could go to sleep with a conscious mind that we have tried our best to save him.

However, I cannot say the same for all those who seem to think that it is all right to take away the life of another person. To them, i would say think first before you have a child. I don't know if you are a parent but if you are I hope they will remain healthy always.