Wednesday 19 November 2008

I really miss you Ken

July/2008

I really didn't realise that mother had stopped your cancer treatment at this point of time. You only had 6 more months to complete your treatment. I believed you will have bright future from next year. Who could imagine that your mother could have stopped your cancer medical treatment. I should have checked U.M.M.C more frequently so that I could have saved you much earlier. I am really sorry Ken, I never thought your mother and family are so extreme.


March/2008

It was sometime after your mother lost her adoption petition. She has agreed my visitation right at court but we had so much difficulties meeting up. We can only play at car porch just like you are prisoner.


Nov/2007

You looked fine to me. You are getting improved.


July/2006

When we managed to send you back to U.M.M.C. after your mother & family refused to provide you medical treatment. Since then your mother & family became weird and influenced by spiritual cult. But it was only one month they interrupted your medical treatment so you did have great chance of full recovery.


May/2006

When you are found out your Leukaemia (Blood cancer) at University Malay Medical Center.
It was nothing to worry about you since Professor and doctors have explained us that you have great chance of survival & cure rate. Even I have checked with Japanese Leukaemia specialist that Professr Wan Ariffin bin Abdullah is the best Leukaemia specialist in Malaysia. That why I have decided not send you back to Japan.



Dec/2005


Sep/2005


7 comments:

Anonymous said...

Take a look at the picture taken in July 2006, a big red packet hung around Ken's neck. It must be the "weapon" given by the mother and Lau family to Ken to fight with syaitan, hantu, pontianak, etc that they believe these are the culprits sending cancer cells to little Ken.

Anonymous said...

Dear Ken,

It really pained me to see your smiling faces in all these pictures but not knowing if you are still smiling or grimacing in pain.

The last time I carried you, you were still a baby of few months. Since you were taken back to your maternal grandparents home by your mom, I have not seen you. From your pictures I can see that you are a very strong boy - probably from your father's genes. Though you have been diagnosed with cancer at 2 years and without a doubt suffering discomfort you are still happy and smiling brightly! My heart goes out to you.

Please continue to be strong. We love you and God loves you. Your suffering will not be in vain. You are here in this world for a reason - probably to be a lesson in life to your mum and her family.

I will continue to pray for you.

Dear readers, whether you know the Lau family or part of the Lau family does not matter but just take a look at these photos of this happy child and imagine if he is your own. How do you feel now knowing he may no longer be smiling, the life fading out of him and he may never smile again.....

Anonymous said...

Dear mei, it is not very nice of you for saying the red packet is some kind of "weapon" for Ken. It is just their believe and culture and it is not nice to criticize other people's freedom of belief. Yes, it might not be a practical form of healing but up to this point, I'm sure every parent will do whatever means possible to help their child.

All in all, I still do hope Ken will not be deprived of treatment and urge that actions are to be taken to locate him. Whether or not the mother is at fault is another matter. Ken's life should be of top priority.

But have Ken's dad asked why Ken's mom took him out of treatment? Is it because the medical fees? Maybe Ken's dad can help them a little with that matter?

These are just my views on this matter as this is a public blog and I happened to stumble upon it just yesterday. I hope appropriate actions will be taken.

Anonymous said...

Dear Lily,

Thank you for your concern. You are right that Ken's right is the top priority and all efforts are being made to locate him now.

Payment of the medical fees have never really been an issue. Ken's father is always insisting on paying for all necessary treatment but his mum refuses to accept his help.

Seeing this situation, the doctors at UMMC have assured Ken's mum that they will waive the medical fees to encourage her to send him for treatment. Thank God for people like them who shows that they can put aside protocol and uphold the Hippocratic Oath.

Please continue to support this blog to ensure appropriate actions are taken soon.

Anonymous said...

Dear Lily

I am glad to know that you stumble upon this blog and I hope you will help circulate this blog until it reaches the right person or the authority, hopefully as soon as possible so baby Kenichi Sian Yee gets immediate medical treatment.

The real issue is about the welfare, health and life of young boy who has not reached the age where he can make his own decision whether to accept treatment or not.

As such, he should not be deprived and denied medical treatment!

Kenichi Lau Sian Yee said...

Dear Lily,

Professor Wan Ariffin Bin abdullah has offered his mother Ms.lau Ping Leng that he can arrange free medical at UMMC on 2006. However she refused to provide medical treatment at UMMC since June/2008.
So it is not matter of $.

She took Kenichi to SJMC when his face was swollen on 27/10/2008 at 21.26pm and confirmed by SJMC that Kenichi cancer has relapse. SJMC has insisted to go back to UMMC but mother refused so they have explained cost of medical fee at SJMC and she has agreed to pay so that SJMC started to provide medical treatment for relapse of cancer.

After discharge from SJMC on 01/11/2008, SJMC fixed his next admission to SJMC on 09/11/2008 but never turned up and went into hiding.

So what can I do? Try to talk to missing mother? and settle this issue? Mother got full support from her family to run way and just waiting him to die.

Professor has confirmed Kenichi will not survive without medical treatment.

Anonymous said...

Dear Lily,

Thank you for your concern. If you read my comment carefully, i did not criticize other religion or their belief. What is the red packet for ? To protect the child right ? Isn't it a weapon hang on the body so that Ken can fight with those culprits ? This is their way of love given to this pitiful little boy when he needs most is appropriate medical treatment. I send this message out to say they love the child but in the wrong way, this is only good as a moral support if you do believe in it. Frankly, an educated person like you will surely know this will not cure leukimia cancer. They have been doing it for long enough by now, i beg for a change, or at least continue with what she is supposed to do as an educated mother.