So Daddy needs to rescue me again.
Daddy made police report to send me back to UMMC on 22/10/2008 21:44pm.
Daddy could not sleep at all.
Next morning he went to report to welfare HQ and Subang Jaya office to seek his help in order to force mother to send me back to get medical treatment.
He also consulted his lawyer again.
He did anything everything he can think of.
Daddy could not sleep at all.
Unfortunately no news.
It will be long weekend and 27/10/2008 is public holiday in Malaysia.
Friday 24 October 2008
Thursday 23 October 2008
Shocking reply from UMMC
22/10/2008 16:04
Thank you for your letter.
The picture of Lau Sian Yee that you send was of grave concern to us. There is very strong possibility that he might have leukemia coming back to affect his testis causing it to be swollen.
This is very early relapse and the chance of cure again is only 20-40%. I am quite sure that none of my doctors/colleagues would have told his mother that this was side-effect of leukemia treatment.
looking back at his treatment chart, I noted that the last time we saw Sian Yee was on 25th June 2008, which means that he has not attended his 2 weekly follow up for the last 4 months.
his treatment was due to complete only at the end of 2008.
After many attempts I managed to talk to Sian Yee's mother today. She was very argumentative and aggressive and refused to listen to me or to bring Sian Yee back to the hospital.
Under such circumstance, i do not know what else I could do. Mutual trust between doctors and patients/parents and good family/parental support are important ingredients for successful treatment. In Sian Yee's case, I regret that this is lacking.
Yours sincerely
Thank you for your letter.
The picture of Lau Sian Yee that you send was of grave concern to us. There is very strong possibility that he might have leukemia coming back to affect his testis causing it to be swollen.
This is very early relapse and the chance of cure again is only 20-40%. I am quite sure that none of my doctors/colleagues would have told his mother that this was side-effect of leukemia treatment.
looking back at his treatment chart, I noted that the last time we saw Sian Yee was on 25th June 2008, which means that he has not attended his 2 weekly follow up for the last 4 months.
his treatment was due to complete only at the end of 2008.
After many attempts I managed to talk to Sian Yee's mother today. She was very argumentative and aggressive and refused to listen to me or to bring Sian Yee back to the hospital.
Under such circumstance, i do not know what else I could do. Mutual trust between doctors and patients/parents and good family/parental support are important ingredients for successful treatment. In Sian Yee's case, I regret that this is lacking.
Yours sincerely
Monday 20 October 2008
Nightmare again
Daddy immediately sent my swollen testicle photo to his doctor friend in Japan and also Japaneses leukaemia specialist. And also sent to UMMC.
He got reply from Japanese doctor on 20/10/2008 and reply from Leukaemia specialist on 21/10/2008.
He was shocked to know that my cancer relapse.
So he sent another email to chase UMMC reply.
He got reply from Japanese doctor on 20/10/2008 and reply from Leukaemia specialist on 21/10/2008.
He was shocked to know that my cancer relapse.
So he sent another email to chase UMMC reply.
I don't feel good!
Nowadays my daddy only allowed to meet me twice a month.
Only a couples of hours.
Daddy came to meet me on 18/10/2008.
We enjoyed play play!!
Daddy happen to follow me to the shower after we played at car porch.
Then daddy noticed my testicle is swollen.
It was actually swollen badly.
So my daddy asked mummy "Whats wrong with it"
Mummy replied that is side effect of cancer treatment.
Then he took my photo of swollen testicle and left.
Sunday 19 October 2008
Court case (3)
Mummy again agreed to Daddy that daddy have his weekly visitation right in front of judge.
Since he insisted to reach agreement on his visitation right.
So we thought I can meet my daddy every week for this year.
but my dreams never came true.
daddy again facing difficulties to meet me or I should say visiting me.
If my mother is not around, No one open gate for him.
Even if he is allowed to visit me, Only after 3pm on Saturday for a few hours.
We have to stay within house.
We cannot go out anywhere. As you can see my photo, We can only play at car porch.
He always brings me something for me.
Japanese food, confectionery, DVD, Toys, Clothing and so on.
I love ultra man or Go ranger DVD.
I really have fun!
Court case (2)
It was really odd case.
My daddy can file in so many evidence to support his claim but my mummy cannot furnish anything.
mummy was just claiming bad things about my daddy based on nothing.
My daddy object my mummy adoption claim.
Finally my mummy's lawyer was terminated on 25/09/2007.
My mummy and I went to court on 13/11/2007 but no lawyer for my mummy.
The judge requested her to arrange lawyer immediately since she is the one filed in my adoption.
On 19/02/2008, the judge dismissed her adoption petition.
It mean I am not adopted by my mother!.
I still have daddy! Daddy won!
No doubt I have my parents.
My daddy can file in so many evidence to support his claim but my mummy cannot furnish anything.
mummy was just claiming bad things about my daddy based on nothing.
My daddy object my mummy adoption claim.
Finally my mummy's lawyer was terminated on 25/09/2007.
My mummy and I went to court on 13/11/2007 but no lawyer for my mummy.
The judge requested her to arrange lawyer immediately since she is the one filed in my adoption.
On 19/02/2008, the judge dismissed her adoption petition.
It mean I am not adopted by my mother!.
I still have daddy! Daddy won!
No doubt I have my parents.
Court case
My mummy file in my adoption petition to Kuala Lumpur sessions court on 24/11/2006.
Am I going to be adopted by my mother?
It is rather sound funny.
Am I going to lose my daddy?
But I can meet my daddy whenever I attended to court.
Can't Meet my daddy
Things got worse and worse.
Whenever daddy visit me, I just not allowed to meet him.
Whenever He came to visit me I was just force to go inside and just everyone ignored my daddy.
I know daddy miss me and also I miss daddy.
I don't really know what going on?
All my family here going against him for no reason.
I really hate this!
Whenever daddy visit me, I just not allowed to meet him.
Whenever He came to visit me I was just force to go inside and just everyone ignored my daddy.
I know daddy miss me and also I miss daddy.
I don't really know what going on?
All my family here going against him for no reason.
I really hate this!
Friday 17 October 2008
Why mummy don't let daddy to pay?
When I was discharged from UMMC on 28/07/2006.
My daddy rushed to UMMC to settle medical bill but it was too late.
My mummy told her family that daddy is refusing to settle the bill.
So they have settled bill when he came.
Daddy has requested one doctor not let my mother to settle it.
He complained to doctor about it and he got email from doctor on 30/07/2006.
" coming back to the payment issue, mother had mentioned on Friday upon discharge that she would like to pay for the bills herself and knows you too want to take care of the bill. We would most appreciate it if both of you could decide amongst yourselves how both want to manage your differences. perhaps the court this thurs will assist us in resolving the issues since we have not been able to help both of you"
But later I found out this is all my mother's tactics to blame on daddy to get her family support.
My daddy rushed to UMMC to settle medical bill but it was too late.
My mummy told her family that daddy is refusing to settle the bill.
So they have settled bill when he came.
Daddy has requested one doctor not let my mother to settle it.
He complained to doctor about it and he got email from doctor on 30/07/2006.
" coming back to the payment issue, mother had mentioned on Friday upon discharge that she would like to pay for the bills herself and knows you too want to take care of the bill. We would most appreciate it if both of you could decide amongst yourselves how both want to manage your differences. perhaps the court this thurs will assist us in resolving the issues since we have not been able to help both of you"
But later I found out this is all my mother's tactics to blame on daddy to get her family support.
Thursday 16 October 2008
Daddy tried to negotiate with Mummy
My daddy kept sending letter to mummy.
He warned not to use Chinese herbs.
Doctor explained mummy that it could have conflict with my medicine.
He kept insist to settle amicably.
He has already proposed to her previous lawyer on 13/12/2005.
1, Joint custody
2, Agreed to pay medical fee,education fee, necessary clothing, toy, whatever I need to buy.
3, To pay maintenance monthly fee. Which mummy needs to propose amount.
4, visitation right and alternative weekend and public holidays to stay with daddy.
Daddy treid to settle based on his proposal on 13/12/2005.
But my mummy never reply on any terms and conditions.
where are we heading to?
He warned not to use Chinese herbs.
Doctor explained mummy that it could have conflict with my medicine.
He kept insist to settle amicably.
He has already proposed to her previous lawyer on 13/12/2005.
1, Joint custody
2, Agreed to pay medical fee,education fee, necessary clothing, toy, whatever I need to buy.
3, To pay maintenance monthly fee. Which mummy needs to propose amount.
4, visitation right and alternative weekend and public holidays to stay with daddy.
Daddy treid to settle based on his proposal on 13/12/2005.
But my mummy never reply on any terms and conditions.
where are we heading to?
Negotiation is over?
My daddy received termination notice from my mother's lawyer (Ms.Chang) by emial on 14/08/2006.
" I no longer act for Miss Lau Ping Leng Thank you"
Daddy has been negotiating with Ms. Chang since 2005.
They could not reach anything at all.
He was told that my mother never gave any instruction.
Nothing she can do to support my mother unless my mother decide herself.
Oh What can I do? I am between them.
" I no longer act for Miss Lau Ping Leng Thank you"
Daddy has been negotiating with Ms. Chang since 2005.
They could not reach anything at all.
He was told that my mother never gave any instruction.
Nothing she can do to support my mother unless my mother decide herself.
Oh What can I do? I am between them.
Wednesday 15 October 2008
Difficult to meet my daddy
My daddy visit me but he found difficulty to meet me.
Even Daddy rung our house bell, He is just ignored by whole family.
He needs to wait for a long time and he kept called my mother's mobile phone.
My family behaviour changed a lot against my daddy.
He was just treated like enemy.
He waited so long time to see me on 05/08/2006 and 13/08/2006.
I don't really know whats going on?
Even Daddy rung our house bell, He is just ignored by whole family.
He needs to wait for a long time and he kept called my mother's mobile phone.
My family behaviour changed a lot against my daddy.
He was just treated like enemy.
He waited so long time to see me on 05/08/2006 and 13/08/2006.
I don't really know whats going on?
Meeting with welfare officer
My parents went to welfare office on 03/08/2006.
welfare officer tried to convince them to reconcile.
My mother agreed to gave full access to daddy and me in order for us to meet at any time.
That good news for me.
Welfare officer also suggested to settle by lawyer to lawyer.
It is much easy way to settle family case without any emotion anyway.
Again welfare officer did good job to improve my parents relationship.
welfare officer tried to convince them to reconcile.
My mother agreed to gave full access to daddy and me in order for us to meet at any time.
That good news for me.
Welfare officer also suggested to settle by lawyer to lawyer.
It is much easy way to settle family case without any emotion anyway.
Again welfare officer did good job to improve my parents relationship.
My mother's lawyer
After my discharge from UMMC.
My daddy negotiated with my mummy's lawyer.
He wanted to have amicable solution.
Her lawyer called him up on 01/08/2006 and tried to get full settlement.
He has replied by email on 01/08/2006 and 02/08/2006.
But unfortunately mother could not reply anything and negotiation was over.
Finally my mother terminated lawyer's service later on.
My daddy negotiated with my mummy's lawyer.
He wanted to have amicable solution.
Her lawyer called him up on 01/08/2006 and tried to get full settlement.
He has replied by email on 01/08/2006 and 02/08/2006.
But unfortunately mother could not reply anything and negotiation was over.
Finally my mother terminated lawyer's service later on.
Tuesday 14 October 2008
Discharge from UMMC
Doctor decided me to go back.
Somehow they had another meeting on 28/07/2006.
My mother changed her mind and she disagreed me to go back with my daddy.
So again another meeting with welfare officer and doctors.
My mother insisted me to go back with her.
Of course she is my mother. I know that I need her.
But I also need daddy too.
I really wished they can solve their relationship.
That's must be good for me.
But my daddy cannot forgive what my mother and family did for me.
Never provide proper medical treatment for me.
Never informed him about it.
I am cancer patient.
Everyone knows that only medical treatment can cure my cancer.
How much they pray for me I cannot cure my cancer nor Chinese herbs.
Finally welfare officer decided me to go back with my mother.
Daddy obviously objected strongly but mother is somehow stronger than father in Malaysia.
Daddy complained that if it was happened in Japan, Mother will automatically lose her custody and even she could be arrested for not providing medical treatments.
Malaysia is different from civilised country.
Somehow they had another meeting on 28/07/2006.
My mother changed her mind and she disagreed me to go back with my daddy.
So again another meeting with welfare officer and doctors.
My mother insisted me to go back with her.
Of course she is my mother. I know that I need her.
But I also need daddy too.
I really wished they can solve their relationship.
That's must be good for me.
But my daddy cannot forgive what my mother and family did for me.
Never provide proper medical treatment for me.
Never informed him about it.
I am cancer patient.
Everyone knows that only medical treatment can cure my cancer.
How much they pray for me I cannot cure my cancer nor Chinese herbs.
Finally welfare officer decided me to go back with my mother.
Daddy obviously objected strongly but mother is somehow stronger than father in Malaysia.
Daddy complained that if it was happened in Japan, Mother will automatically lose her custody and even she could be arrested for not providing medical treatments.
Malaysia is different from civilised country.
Monday 13 October 2008
Can I go back with my Daddy?
UMMC helps my parents a lot.
They arranged so many meeting regarding my future medical treatment.
UMMC panel of doctors, welfare officer and my parents attended on meeting on 12/07/2006.
My mother (Ms. Lau Ping Leng) has agreed me to go back with my Daddy upon my discharge from UMMC.
So my daddy wanted to make sure to go back with me.
He even made police report (Police report No: PANTAI/006061/06) to confirm me to go back with him on 16/07/2006 in case my mother change her mind.
They arranged so many meeting regarding my future medical treatment.
UMMC panel of doctors, welfare officer and my parents attended on meeting on 12/07/2006.
My mother (Ms. Lau Ping Leng) has agreed me to go back with my Daddy upon my discharge from UMMC.
So my daddy wanted to make sure to go back with me.
He even made police report (Police report No: PANTAI/006061/06) to confirm me to go back with him on 16/07/2006 in case my mother change her mind.
admitted back to UMMC (2)
I have improved a lot.
Here is Heaven but I hated to see my parents are not in good relationship.
But I needed go through a lot of pain.
If I was provided proper medical treatment, I need not go through all of it.
I was without medical treatment more than one month.
Thank you daddy SAVE MY LIFE! GOOD JOB!
I must appreciate all the staff and doctor here!
Busy Daddy
Since my mother agreed me to go back with Daddy.
He has arranged advertisement on the star newspaper for 8 days to look for nanny for me.
"Nanny wanted at PJ Qualified experienced Nurse or nursery teacher preferred. English speaker only."
He was so busy with enquiry and try to find good one for me.
He also paid for maid agency to arrange English speaker maid.
He was getting ready to take me home.
He has arranged advertisement on the star newspaper for 8 days to look for nanny for me.
"Nanny wanted at PJ Qualified experienced Nurse or nursery teacher preferred. English speaker only."
He was so busy with enquiry and try to find good one for me.
He also paid for maid agency to arrange English speaker maid.
He was getting ready to take me home.
Sunday 12 October 2008
admitted back to UMMC
I was rescued by my father and my medical treatment was started.
Actually I was not in good condition but doctor tried everything they could do to save my life.
My mother put strange red colour thing for me. That is what she believed in.
Rescue me
My father was so shocked to know that my medical treatment was stopped by my mother and family.
He has consulted his lawyer and anyone who can help him.
He has reported to the Malaysian welfare office and Royal Malaysia Police.
So obviously they visited our house on 30/06/2006.
But my uncle Mr. Thomas Lau Fong Meng explained that I was well taking care by my family and nothing wrong.
However my father got letter from University Malaya Medical Centre.
30/06/2006
To whom it may concern
This is to certify that Lau Sian Yee was admitted to UMMC on 21/05/2006 and diagnosed to have Actue Lymphoblastic Leukaemia, a type of blood cancer.
The current treatment of Acute lymphoblastic Leukaemia has a cure rate of about 75-80%.
Without any treatment survival rate will not be possible.
Treatment for Lau Sian Yee was commenced on 23/05/2006 according to MaSpore ALL 2003 protocol. He attended all his appointments for treatment till 06/06/2006. Following that day, he has defaulted treatment here at UMMC.
So he managed to rescue me with help of the Malaysian welfare office and mother had no choice but to send me back to UMMC on 03/07/2006 afternoon.
He has consulted his lawyer and anyone who can help him.
He has reported to the Malaysian welfare office and Royal Malaysia Police.
So obviously they visited our house on 30/06/2006.
But my uncle Mr. Thomas Lau Fong Meng explained that I was well taking care by my family and nothing wrong.
However my father got letter from University Malaya Medical Centre.
30/06/2006
To whom it may concern
This is to certify that Lau Sian Yee was admitted to UMMC on 21/05/2006 and diagnosed to have Actue Lymphoblastic Leukaemia, a type of blood cancer.
The current treatment of Acute lymphoblastic Leukaemia has a cure rate of about 75-80%.
Without any treatment survival rate will not be possible.
Treatment for Lau Sian Yee was commenced on 23/05/2006 according to MaSpore ALL 2003 protocol. He attended all his appointments for treatment till 06/06/2006. Following that day, he has defaulted treatment here at UMMC.
So he managed to rescue me with help of the Malaysian welfare office and mother had no choice but to send me back to UMMC on 03/07/2006 afternoon.
Saturday 11 October 2008
My birthday 2 years old
It was my birthday. 27/06/2006.
At that time I was still staying at No68, Jalan SS19/1H, 47500, Subang Jaya.
My daddy came to visit me from morning but i was really sick on my birthday.
Daddy brought me cake and present.
But I could not play with my daddy.
At around 2pm, My daddy was so furious and he started to argue with my mother somehow.
He actually found out that I am not under medication.
But my mother was shouting at him
Mum) Do you want to kill your son?
Dad) What are you talking about?
Mum) You see my God (she point at Buddhist altar) You will kill him if you send him back to hospital!
My daddy was really confused with.
He kept insisted to take me to hospital but all my mother's family disagreed me to go back to UMMC.
At that time I was still staying at No68, Jalan SS19/1H, 47500, Subang Jaya.
My daddy came to visit me from morning but i was really sick on my birthday.
Daddy brought me cake and present.
But I could not play with my daddy.
At around 2pm, My daddy was so furious and he started to argue with my mother somehow.
He actually found out that I am not under medication.
But my mother was shouting at him
Mum) Do you want to kill your son?
Dad) What are you talking about?
Mum) You see my God (she point at Buddhist altar) You will kill him if you send him back to hospital!
My daddy was really confused with.
He kept insisted to take me to hospital but all my mother's family disagreed me to go back to UMMC.
Nightmare (1)
I did not really know why?
But My mother decided to stop my medical treatment.
My last visit to UMMC was on 06/06/2006.
My mother and family started to feed me Chinese herbs.
Of course it was not prescribed from registered Chinese doctor.
Just supplied from her brother or/and monks
They started to call monk and Medium to pray for me.
Of course my daddy doesn't know anything about it.
Since he is only allowed to meet me from time to time.
My mother's family tried not let me see my daddy.
Even Daddy visit me, They will just ignore him.
Never open house gate for my Daddy.
I was really getting weak without medical treatment.
Really felt discomfort.
But My mother decided to stop my medical treatment.
My last visit to UMMC was on 06/06/2006.
My mother and family started to feed me Chinese herbs.
Of course it was not prescribed from registered Chinese doctor.
Just supplied from her brother or/and monks
They started to call monk and Medium to pray for me.
Of course my daddy doesn't know anything about it.
Since he is only allowed to meet me from time to time.
My mother's family tried not let me see my daddy.
Even Daddy visit me, They will just ignore him.
Never open house gate for my Daddy.
I was really getting weak without medical treatment.
Really felt discomfort.
Friday 10 October 2008
Leukaemia
I was not feeling well for sometimes.
I got high fever and a lot of discomfort.
But finally through blood test, I was told that I got Pre B Acute Lymphobalstic Leukaemia.
It is blood cancer.
So I was transferred to University Malaya medical Center (UMMC)
I was admitted on 21/05/2006.
I thought I am going to die but I was told I had good chance of full recovery which is up to 80% of survival chance.
I felt really relieved.
Then I was discharged from UMMC on 28/05/2006 and supposed to commence my cancer treatment.
Initially my mother didn't inform my daddy but somehow he managed to visit me a few days later.
I got high fever and a lot of discomfort.
But finally through blood test, I was told that I got Pre B Acute Lymphobalstic Leukaemia.
It is blood cancer.
So I was transferred to University Malaya medical Center (UMMC)
I was admitted on 21/05/2006.
I thought I am going to die but I was told I had good chance of full recovery which is up to 80% of survival chance.
I felt really relieved.
Then I was discharged from UMMC on 28/05/2006 and supposed to commence my cancer treatment.
Initially my mother didn't inform my daddy but somehow he managed to visit me a few days later.
Introdution 2
Please do not think my blog is fiction.
This is NON FICTION.
I am going to tell you everything I am going through.
All the truth nothing but truth.
You may think it is impossible to happen in your life but I am actually facing it.
This is NON FICTION.
I am going to tell you everything I am going through.
All the truth nothing but truth.
You may think it is impossible to happen in your life but I am actually facing it.
Introduction
Hi, Everyone.
My name is Kenichi Lau Sian Yee.
I am 4+ years old.
My father is Japanse and my mother is Malaysian Chinese. But they are not married.
I am suffering from Pre B Acute Lymphobalstic Leukaemia.
It is blood cancer.
I am staying with my mother and family at No3, Jalan USJ 16/3C, Subang Jaya, Selangor, MALAYSIA.
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